Relationships Things I have learned !

Here are some basic rules that I have come up with if you want to keep somebody interested , I know because I have managed to mess up sooo many times.


The Chase
.1 Don’t act too keen
.2 Don’t let them think that you are always available (people always want what they cant have)
.3 Don’t Send to many texts , emails which is hard when you really like someone i know but try to just reply to the messages they send you
.4 Don’t forget your friends they will be their before and after your relationship.
.5 Don’t change yourself for them an act is hard to keep up so it’s better to be yourself
.6 Do show an interest in their hobbies (this shows you have stuff in common)
.7 Don’t let the chase go on too long because after a while they will see you as a friend rather then a potential partner (no going back when it reaches this stage.) the best thing to do is without being pushy and expressing how much you like them find out where you stand.
.8 You cant change someone so don’t try

The Relationship
If you get through all this and end up in a relationship:

.1 Don’t Crowd your partner
.2 Do Trust them (this is usually the end for most relationships they are all based on trust innocent till proven guilty).
.3 Don’t Forget your friends ( I am actually guilty of this I made no time for my friends in one of my relationships and when it ended I had no shoulder to cry on)
.4 Your partner should add to your life not be your life we are born alone and die alone so remember you need to be your own person as no one wants to go out with a clone of themselves.
.5 Be independent if your partner wanted a child they would have one in a relationship you need to be equal no farther mother figures .
.6 Don’t put yourself down in front of someone their is only so many times someone can say your pretty /Handsome before they get bored.
The Break up
If it comes to an end

.1 Move on - the pain will last as long as you let it
.2 Be strong -don’t let them see that it has effected you as much as it has the last thing you want is their pity
.3 Don’t go straight into another relationship before your fully over the last one its not fair on anyone.
.4 Always remember that their is someone out their for you , you just haven’t found them yet .


Life is not a fairy tale and I think that sometimes things need to be said as they are especially when it comes to affairs of the heart.

"its nice to dream when your asleep but when your awake avoid the heart ache xxx"